Monday, December 29, 2014

What's On the Books for this week

 
 
Today I am joining up with  The Simple Woman to give you a peek into my daybook for this week...
 
Outside my window.... Sunshine!  It is still a little chilly but I love seeing the sun.
 
I am thinking... About my New Year's goals and resolutions....yes, I do that.
 
I am thankful... That I have been able to really relax over of my break.  I was really needing it mentally, physically, and spiritually.
 
I am wearing.... My sweats...hey, it isn't pajamas :)
 
I am creating... A calm mind.
 
I am going... Grocery shopping later and to my niece's 10th party this evening.
 
I am wondering....How to have a better schedule for 2015 and reduce the chaos in my life.  Seriously.
 
I am reading.... I am finishing up some books on my Kindle.  I need to be better focused and read one book at a time I think.
 
I am hoping...that this week drags by..... I am off all week :)
 
I am learning.. That I can not do it all.  I am not a Superwoman.  I'm just not.
 
Around the house... Laundry, dishes, picking up, and mopping floors.
 
In the kitchen.... Simple but good recipes for the week.  Definitely some potato soup and maybe some tacos.
 
A favorite quote for today... "Make a narrow road."
 
One of my favorite things... Coffee.  It just is.
 
A few plans for this week...Catching up on home and family.
 
A peek into one of my days... I will spare you the chaos....lol
 
 
 


Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Update on Fall Goals

 
1. Finish all of our Christmas Shopping by November 30th. I used to live by this rule and enjoyed the Holiday Season a lot more.


A few presents were bought after but for the most part this was attained.  Everything was even wrapped a week before Christmas.  Yes!
 
 
 
2. Have Christmas Cards ready to order by November 15th.

Not by the 15th :(  They are currently done but not sent out.  We have been battling strep and the flu at our house.  Some peoples will be mailed late and others will be hand delivered.  Such is life.
 
 
 
3. Make a new pumpkin recipe.

We bought pumpkin noodles at at the pumpkin patch this year.  We cooked them in chicken broth just like normal homemade noodles.  They were AMAZING....this will definitely be on the fall purchase list.  I am getting tired of pumpkin spice this and that, so after a container of pumpkin spice creamer and a couple of pumpkin pies I was ready to move on.
 
 
 
4. Have Doug go with us to the Pumpkin Patch this year. It has been a few years since he has been able to go, and he LOVES the pumpkin ice cream and the bakery. In his defense, he is a farmer. Fall does not usually leave time for frivolous activities like pumpkin patches. We will visit the bakery for him if he doesn't get to go....love our Farmer :)

He made it this year...Yes!


 
5. Make Lucy a scarf and ear muffs before Oct 15th. Finish up Madison's scarf and ear muffs as well.

Madison's got done but now she wants some buttons sown on for decoration (still sitting there waiting) and Lucy's scarf is done but I ran short on the yarn for her head wrap and haven't found a match yet....uggghhhh.



All in all I don't think I did too shabby on this season's list but have decided to not make a winter list.  What gets done does and what doesn't doesn't.  You will all understand my new year's philosophy when I reveal my "word" for 2015.  Are you doing a word for the New Year?  

Friday, December 19, 2014

What is my Identity?




Joining Jill Savage for the Third Thursday Blog Hop. I know I am a day late, but that is life right?  Sick kids and Christmas have my schedule a mess!  Well anyway.... today's topic is What is Your Identity... 
 
I found it much easier to write about my personality than my identity.  Maybe I just don't like being "defined" by things. 
 
I can be identified as a daughter, sister, wife, mother, ex wife, aunt, granddaughter, daughter in law, friend, coworker, sister in Christ, as well as many other "titles". 
 
We are identified by where we are from, who our "people" are, what we do, our race, our culture, and a host of other indicators. But all of these things are just pieces of the person we are as a whole. 
 
How do I identify myself? That depends on what I am doing and who I am interacting with.  I would never use my "Mom" hat with my supervisor or my "Coworker" hat with my family.  However, sometimes the  lines and roles  are blurred.  When I am reading to children ( I am a Literacy Specialist). sometimes my "Mom" voice is used...
 
My most important identifier, even before wife or mother, is daughter of God.  He has put all the puzzle pieces together to make me who I am.  He chose all of the indicators I  use to define "me".  He knew who my "people" would be, what career I would gravitate to, and all of the people who would cross my path. 
 
Isn't that Awesome?  So often we feel that these things are left to chance but he knows it all, before it ever even happens!!!
 
I am of Native American decent, I love to share this with people as it is an honor to me.  I am related to the Wright Brothers who invented the first airplane.  The  accomplishments of my ancestors were many and great but not in comparison to my father God's....he created my beautiful children and my loving husband.  He created my family for me and me for them. 
 
God made me an American but I would be as honored to have been a Canadian or a European or an African.  I love that he knows each of us so intimately that we can't help but worship his goodness and magnificence. 
 
One day I will bow at his feet and thank him "in person" for the me he made.


For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.
 ~ Psalm 139:13 NIV
 
 
 
 
 
 


Monday, December 15, 2014

Homemaker Saturday 12/13

I know, I know, this is supposed to be a Monday post, but mine will have to remain Saturday posts for now.  I am a full time wife and mom with a full time career outside of my house as well as the full time job within my walls.   My heart is always with my family whether I am home full time or part time.  I have been blessed with seasons of being home full time (my preference) and am now in a season of working full time outside of the home.  Both have their ups and downs and pros and cons.  We live a busy life and I love to make the weekends peaceful and family centered as much as possible.  The reality is that there is a lot of catch up going on....

Welcome to my crazy life!
 
The weather outside is.....Pretty warm for December.  It is in the 50's.  When I left to take Madison to her Christmas Cheer Party this morning I didn't even need a coat or to warm up the van.  This is my kind of winter weather :)
 
On the breakfast plate this morning... Just coffee with vanilla creamer so far.  I am not really hungry, it could be from dealing with sick kiddos.  One with strep and one the stomach flu.
 
As I look outside my window... It does look dreary but feels so nice.  If the sun was out it would be perfect.

 
As I look around the house... oh my.  I won't even tell you.  It is bad...very, very bad.

 
On today's to do list... Everything. But with sickies, none of it will probably happen. Lucy keeps asking me to just sit with her.

 
Currently reading... My devotionals.  I am going to start a new one I downloaded on my Kindle.  I will get back to you on the title.  I am not feeling the whole book thing right now, so I am reading short devotionals instead.

 
On the TV today... A lot of Disney Channel I am thinking :)

 
What I am creating at the moment...  I feel we are just creating a mess around here with the drop in and go that has been happening.

 
New recipe I tried or want to try this week... I found a recipe for crock pot mac and cheese that has cream cheese in it.  I will let you all know how it turns out.

 
Favorite photo from the phone or  the camera...
 
 
I only have one believer left in the house.  She is requesting a puppy.....
 

 
Prayers, Inspirational Quotes, or Devotionals....


Please pray that this sickness passes quickly from our home.  We have a lot of fun things planned for the next couple of weeks with the Holidays and some down time that I want everyone to be able to enjoy :)

Blogmas Catch Up



 
I live in Illinois so Mother Nature likes to throw all kinds of weather at us all year long, just to keep us guessing.  In the past month, we have had 60 degree days, rain, snow, freezing rain, almost 0 degree temps (with wind chill), and even some sunshine.  We had snow on Thanksgiving, so let's hope for snow on Christmas.  We had a beautiful weekend of 50 degree weather, but this is what our roads looked like a week and 1/2 ago.....
 

 
My children have always had a chocolate advent calendar to count down to Christmas.  This was something I always had as a child as well.  I have noticed that the younger ones are better about eating them everyday, but the older ones play catch up....at least they don't skip ahead :)  We did have the year when Madison was about 3 that she ate all of Katie's chocolates when we weren't looking.  We had to keep them in a high place for the rest of the season and it was crazy hard to find one late in the game to replace Katie's but we did.... Praise God!!
 
R.J., our elf, has been bringing the calendars with him from the North Pole on the day he returns...



 
 
Some background on my history, my dad was a retired drill sergeant in the Army.  He retired when I was 7 years old.  When I was young he still had a very gruff voice and his presence could be intimidating if you did not know him.  Later in life it was still intimidating if he wanted it to be :)  When it came to me he was always a softy...always.  My brother and I where 14 years apart in age, he was pretty much an adult most of my life.  He was the super coolest brother ever and again could be quite a softy when it came to me, even putting aside his teenage attitude back in the day. 
 
And on with the story....
 
When I was 4, I decided our family should act out the Christmas story on Christmas Eve.  I chose my dad to be Joseph, my brother a wise man, my mom an angel (she was an angel), myself as Mary, and my baby doll as Jesus.  I set up the scene and used a doll bed as the manager.  This was all staged in front of the Christmas Tree.  My mom had to stand on a chair and use a flashlight as the star shining down on us and we all had towels on our head for costumes.  I told the story (from memory...lol) and we all took our places in front of the tree like a live nativity.  There was no one there to witness it or to take a picture for a memory.  The memory lives on in my mind and I am so blessed for a family that loved a little girl so much that they would do this. 
 
Merry Christmas
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Friday, December 12, 2014

A Little Inspiration in the Day to Day

 

 
 
 
If we don't change, we don't grow.  If we don't grow, we aren't really living.
 
~Gail Sheehy



I love Poinsettias, they are just such a gorgeous flower... I took this picture in Walmart, I just don't have the time to maintain one this year.  I decided to give it a chance at a longer life with another family... and I needed something red for my photo challenge that day!

 

Thursday, December 11, 2014

What's on the menu for Christmas?

 
I think we have finalized our Christmas Menu.... I am almost salivating...
 
 
Prime Rib Roast on the smoker with an Au Jus for dipping
 
Instead of potatoes I am making Homemade Baked Macaroni and Cheese (craziness, but making some changes)
 
 
Green Beans Wrapped in Bacon with a Maple Glaze on the smoker (Doug made these a few weeks ago and they were amazing)
 
Green Bean Casserole (Just because, tradition you know)
 
Brown and Serve Rolls
 
 
Baked Pineapple and Chocolate Pie for dessert
 
 
I am hoping for plenty of left overs....
 
 
Link up with Diary of a Stay At Home Mom to share your menu!

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Show Us Your Cookies or Recipes

 
This post title for Blogmas made me giggle.... I do know how to cook and I do make many things homemade and very well. However, I am not one of "those"  Christmas Cookie Bakers.  I love that there are many of you out there and I am your Christmas Cookie Eater when I am given the opportunity. 
 
At our house we use the pull apart and bake cookies in the refrigerator section of the grocery.  All kinds, all brands.  I am pretty sure I could say that the chocolate chip ones are the favorite in my family, but when it comes to Christmas, we always make the sugar ones from Pillsbury with a Christmas stamp of some kind on them. 
 
 
 


I know, this is probably a mom fail but it works for us.   
 
However, I do like to make the rolo/pretzel candies and I make a really good graham cracker toffee. 
 
But my favorite thing to make for Christmas and New Years is......
 
Chocolate Chip Cheeseball
 
1 stick softened butter
1 container whipped cream cheese
 3/4 cup powdered sugar
2 tbsp. brown sugar
1 tsp vanilla extract (or more to taste)
2 cups chocolate chips
 
Mix all ingredients, except chocolate chips, together until well blended.  I use my Kitchen Aid for this.  Lastly add the chocolate chips until mixed well.
 
Put in a small dish and chill (cheeseball in the fridge, you on the couch)
 
Serve with Graham Crackers....or just on a spoon lol.
 
Once you make this, it will be requested again each year.  Be ready to commit for the long haul.....


Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Winter Items I Can't Live Without

 
If you have read my blog, like ever, you know winter and I have kind of a tolerate, bordering on really dislike, each other kind of relationship.  If I could have snow without ice and in 50 degree weather, life would be fine for those 4-5 months.  I don't really dislike snow.  But I can't handle being cold.  At All!!
 
Ok, Rant over, for today, maybe, until it is brought up again....
 
What can I not live without?
 
A Warm Coat...my favorite coat is my black puffer coat.  It was super cheap from Sam's eleven (yes, eleven) years ago.  It is the warmest coat ever and luckily has never went out of style.  The zipper is being a little iffy this year and I just might cry if I talk about it too long.  This coat washes and drys so well and does not look like it has been a winter staple for eleven years.  I also have a North Face that I love but if it is below 20, the black coat wins hands down, every time.
 
I also wear black leather gloves.  I will spend more money on a good pair of gloves because they make all the difference.  I like leather ones because I can do everything I need to (except dial my phone) without taking off my gloves every three seconds.  I like the ones with fur on the inside for extra warmth. They last forever and I have only had to replace a pair when I lose one (I never lose both, kind of like socks).
 
Merry Christmas and link up with Diary of a Stay At Home Mom to read the other Blogmas 2014 posts.
 


Monday, December 8, 2014

Catch Up for Blogmas

 
I am playing some catch up on my Blogmas list today...
 
When Do You Open Presents?
 
We open one gift on Christmas Eve.  Usually I get the girls something similar so I pick that gift so that every one gets it at the same time.  I am excited about this years sister's gifts.  I will fill you in after the holidays :)  All other presents are opened on Christmas morning.
 
 Handmade Christmas Gifts to Give or Get?
 
I love to get those coco mixes, etc.  in the jar.  Really anything homemade, I just love the sentiment of it.  To give?  I haven't been as good at this as of late.  I sometimes buy homemade Apple Butter from the Amish store and give it with a bag of bisquit mix.  I haven't made it homemade, but it is the next best thing. 
 
What is on Your Wish List This Year?
 
Nothing really specific this year.  I would like a carpet cleaner I think.  I may need to let someone know that though, I don't think that is the type of gift that usually comes to mind. 
 
I really do like to just get money or gift cards.  Shopping without guilt is one of the best presents for me :) 
 


Friday, December 5, 2014

Favorite Christmas Foods...

 last year at Christmas
 
I am traditional when it comes to Christmas food....
 
We often have ham, mashed potatoes or au gratin potatoes, green bean casserole, and brown and serve rolls (I have an insane love for brown and serve rolls).
 
Another traditional food for my family for Christmas is Prime Rib.  My mom always made it, my brother made it for several years after she passed, and this year I think Doug is going to make prime rib on our smoker.  Yummmm.  It is perhaps the only steak I really like. 
 
I am always up for pumpkin or chocolate pie as my dessert. With lots of Rediwhip !!!
 
Now that I am hungry........ 

I am really enjoying everyone's Christmas posts.  I ordered Love Actually to watch this weekend.  It seems to be a big hit and I am not sure if I ever even heard of it. 

Merry Christmas !
 


Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Quick and Easy Supper

 
Quick and Easy Vegetable Soup/Stew
 
Ingredients:
Large can of Tomato Juice
1 Box Chicken Broth
Canned Vegetables (drained) My picks are:
Diced Potatoes
Green Beans
Corn
Sweet Peas
2 lbs browned hamburger with diced onion
1 box of any kind of pasta noodles
Chili seasoning to taste
 
I brown and drain the hamburger with onion together, and then add everything but the pasta together in a big soup pot.  When it begins boiling, I add the noodles and cook about 20-30 minutes. 
 
Serve with corn bread or crackers :)
 
 

Favorite Christmas Movies

 
My all time favorite Christmas movie is Holiday Inn with Bing Crosby and Fred Astaire.  I even remember seeing it for the first time when I was about 10 years old and staying up to watch it on CBS's late movie with my mom.  I fell in love! I will watch it whenever it is on and have been known to watch it at other times of the year as well.  I used to have a copy on VHS.  I really need to get a DVD copy.  I love all the songs and the absolute innocence of it.  Old movies are called classic for a reason.
 

 I also enjoy me some Christmas Story.  I will turn on the 24 hours of a Christmas Story on TBS and leave it on the whole time if no one else changes the channel.  Funny, funny, funny!!
 
 
Tim Allen in the Santa Clause movies also draws me in every time.  He made one of the best Santa's ever.  It made me want an Oscar Meyer Wiener Mobile whistle for myself and an elf for a best friend :)
 
 
And finally the old classic, Miracle on 34th Street.  Didn't you just fall in love with Virginia? 
 
 
Those are my favorites....so what are yours?

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

What Christmas Means To Me

 
I was honestly going to skip this topic on the Blogmas because it is going to end up sounding depressing.  However, in the spirit of keeping it real on my blog, I decided to tell a little of my story. 
 
I loved Christmas growing up. My mom always decorated and baked and shopped.  She hated wrapping but lucky for her I LOVED IT.  I would wrap all the presents, even some of my own that were in plain boxes.  I would pretend to work at one of those wrapping places in the mall and add beautiful bows, etc. 
 
My mom always cooked a fancy meal for both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.  Usually a big breakfast as well.  We would have appetizers and prime rib and sometimes even broiled lobster.  She was such an amazing cook. 
 
My brother, who was already grown and out of the house, would come home and spend Christmas Eve at our house even though he only lived 16 miles away.  After he was married that of course seemed silly but they were there pretty early in the morning for breakfast and the day's festivities. 
 
Many of the traditions that I mentioned in yesterday's post are from my own childhood. 
 
As I grew up and had my own family, Christmas day was still spent at my parent's house.  We had the Christmas I accidentally set my self on fire (a story for another day), and lots of good, good memories. 
 
But 14 years ago, 6 days before Christmas, my momma passed away.  She died from cancer which had started in her breast and eventually spread to her brain.  We decided to decorate her house for Christmas for her that year.  Me and my oldest, who was a preschooler at the time, decorated her tree and couldn't wait to show her.  We didn't expect the reaction we got....brain cancer changes a person like no other type of cancer.  She was terrified of the tree and began to scream.  We had to take it down immediately.  Wow.  14 years later that image is still as vivid as the moment it happened.  Not only for me, but also for my daughter.  I have been sick on Christmas for the past 14 years.  Every year I swear it is going to be different, but every year the emotions wash over me like flood.  I have tried to explain it to people before, but most just don't get it.  It is not the most wonderful time of the year for some people.  I know my mom loved Christmas, I know she would not want me to become sad every year, I know I have children to think of.  I know I miss my mom, I know Christmas reminds me of one of the saddest times of my life, and I know no one else quite gets it. 
 
So this year, I will try again to be festive.  I will wear my smile.  I will continue to make great memories.  But I will also need to lock myself away in my room for a little while to just cry.  I will dread the lighting of the tree.  I will make it through this season yet again. 

So if you know someone who struggles at this time of year.  Just give them an extra hug. We are all dealing with our battles in this journey called life.
 
I am thankful for a wonderful family that loves me. I am thankful for Jesus My Savior. And although I miss my mom, I am so blessed for all the years with her and all the wonderful Christmas's because of her.  


Monday, December 1, 2014

Your Favorite Christmas Tradition

 
We have developed many traditions for our family over the years.  We always open one present on Christmas Eve, we have Grinch Punch on Christmas Eve, we lay out cookies and a beer for Santa (this has been since my childhood), sprinkle oatmeal in the yard for the reindeer, have sparkling grape juice and chocolate eclairs on Christmas morning, and we go see a movie as a family on Christmas afternoon at the movie theater.
 
Leading up to Christmas we have chocolate advent calendars, have fun with R.J. our Elf on the Shelf, go to the surrounding towns that have light displays on a  snowy evening, attend  the Santa breakfast in town, and enjoy the school's Christmas program.
 
We have many family dinners and get togethers to attend to wish everyone a wonderful holiday and spend quality time with the ones we love. 
 
My favorite tradition?  Probably leaving cookies and beer for Santa.  I don't know how it started but I have done that since I was old enough to remember Christmas.  My hubby doesn't drink so we have to buy it just for Santa and use the rest for Italian Beef throughout the year.  It is a tradition that has never changed and reminds me of my Daddy.....he had some things in common with Santa....wink wink.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Grinch Punch
 
Lime sherbert
Ginger Ale
Green Sprinkles
 
Scoop the sherbert into a glass or cup and fill with ginger ale.  Top with some green sprinkles and don't forget the green straw... :) 
 
Merry Christmas
 


Blogmas 2014

I have decided to link up with Diary of a Stay At Home Mom and particpate in her Blogmas 2014.  As we know, I can't commit to each and every day...
 
So starting December 1st I will be using the writing prompts below.  I would love to see all of yours as well, so if you participate please put your blog link in the comments. 
 
 Merry Christmas :)


Wednesday, November 26, 2014

A Little Inspiration in the Day to Day

 
 


 
Whether you think that you can or you can't,  you're usually right.
 
~ Henry Ford


I have been having fun with photography this past year.  I feel like I have come far from where I used to be.  I loved this one of a rose from Uncle Lloyd's funeral.  

Monday, November 24, 2014

Home Maker Saturday 11/22

Ok, so this link up is actually Home Maker Monday, but I don't get to be a stay at homer on Mondays, so I am making my post about Saturday. I would love to be a Stay at Home Homemaker but at this season of my life, it is not possible. So even though I am a working wife and mother, I am still a homemaker at heart and this is what my Saturday (if I don't have to run, run, run around) entails...
 
The weather outside is..... Rainy but in the 50's.  It still surprises me that after a few cold days how 50 degree weather feels so warm.  I am wearing a tee shirt and cardigan with my jeans and sandals...I Love It!!
 
On the breakfast plate this morning...Bacon and eggs made by the hubby.  I made mine a sandwhich on a hamburger bun.  There is a deli near us that always makes their breakfast sandwhichs on hamburger buns.  For some reason, I have latched on to this and prefer mine on a bun at home instead of regular bread.  I am also having an extra cup of coffee this morning in honor of the rain.  Rain and coffee just go together :)
 
As I look outside my window... A beautiful rain drizzling down.
 
Right now I am.... doing laundry (love the smell of the dryer with fabric softener) and picking up.
 
As I look around the house... I see how busy our weeks have been lately and am happy for a slower pace today.
 
On today's to do list... At some point we need to run to the big town to take Katie's computer in for repair.  It was damaged by a flying drink at the kitchen table while working on a paper....many tears flowed from my college girl.  I keep telling her it will work out.  At this point, she feels her life is over :( 
 
Currently reading... I plan to start a new book this evening.  I am not sure which direction I am leaning....fiction or nonfiction.
 
On the TV today... Doug is ruling the tv roost today.  I am sure it will be some older movie (you know like from the 70's or 80's lol) knowing him. 
 
On the menu this week... Ummmm Thanksgiving!! I am making Waldorf salad for our work party tomorrow.  I could eat the whole thing myself, for real.
 
What I am creating at the moment..I am planning to start a couple new scarves for Christmas presents.  I am going to be one of those ladies who brings her crochet projects to the basketball games this year.  I am a cheer mom you know :)
 
New recipe I tried or want to try this week...I have never actually made Waldorf salad (though it looks rather easy) so I guess that is my new recipe :)
 
Favorite photo from the phone or camera this week...


 yes, she is a "little" spoiled....
 
Prayers, Inspirational Quotes, or Devotionals....


 
 
 
Link up with Diary of a Stay At Home Mom to share yours :)



Friday, November 21, 2014

A Little Inspiration in the Day to Day




 
 
Something deep within the human psyche cries out for appreciation.
 
~Gary Chapman


I often forget to celebrate me in the day to day.  This week I topped my morning coffee with Rediwhip.....and you know what? I enjoyed it even more.


It's ok to be a little fancy sometimes :)

Thursday, November 20, 2014

Yep, that's me.....



 
I am joining Jill Savage from Hearts At Home for the 3rd Thursday blog hop today.  The topic is Do You Love Your Personality?
 
 
I do love my personality.  I feel I am kind, intuitive, honest, empathetic, sympathetic, funny, sarcastic, open minded, tactful, forgiving, nonjudgemental, spiritual, and trusting.
 
However, I can also be quick to the tongue when angered, paranoid, reactional, emotional, and bitter.
 
I realize that the second set of traits is not as positive but are interwoven with the good ones to make me who I am and remind me that I am a work in progress.
 
Emotional- the double edged sword for me.  I can be happy and carefree or I can worried and sad.  I feel every emotion strongly and personally.  I read too much into other's emotions sometimes or assume that I can fix it or change it.  I am good at identifying when others are bothered by something, but I have to remind myself that not every emotion/situation is centered around me and therefore is out of my control.
 
Control- I don't try to control everyone in my environment but do focus on how I can improve the situation.  I have to remind myself that we all have free will and choices and others choices sometimes lead to negative consequences, just as mine do.  It is ok to let others (including my husband and children) crash and burn sometimes.  I am not the only one who is shaped by these experiences.  We are all on our own journey and God has a separate plan for each of us.
 
I am an introvert.  I love people and love to be social, but I also really love to be by myself.  I like to escape into my head.  I like to not feel like I have to worry about what I say, what I feel, or what would make others happy or  more comfortable.  I like to hang with just me sometimes.  That is ok.  It recharges me so I can be a better person and be better for serving others. 
 
It has taken me a long time to accept that I am not the life of the party, the dynamic one of the group, the sparkle in the punch.  I am the reserved one, the quieter one, and the one who tries to avoid the drama at all cost.  God has blessed me with some big personalities in my family (hubby and kids)  and I see my place as the one who is to calm the storm and celebrate in their enthusiasm.  We all have a place, and I like mine.  Do you like yours?
 
 


Wednesday, November 19, 2014

It's That Time of Year


I wouldn't be a true blogger if I didn't post my Starbucks and Boots in the Snow pictures.... I admit this time of year does have that going for it. 
 
 
 
 I love a nice Holiday Starbucks blend and the Chestnut Praline Latte is pretty amazing.  My next favorite is the Eggnog Latte...yummm.
 
 
 
 
 
I also love to wear my boots and my scarfs.  I personally would prefer to wear these in 50-60 degree weather instead of 25 degrees and below....just sayin'
 
I do like snow.  I don't like to be out in it, like At All, but I love to admire it from the inside of my house through a window while covered in a warm blanket or throw.  Snow on Christmas is a bonus :)
 
I love the ice covered tree branches and I do agree they sparkle like diamonds.
 
I love hot drinks (coffee, hot chocolate), soups, and warm cookies.
 
See, I am not a complete and total Scrooge.  Basically I am just not created for the cold.  Once I am cold, I stay cold and that is just miserable.  I see the beauty of all the seasons, you just won't see me on a snow mobile, or building a snow man, or in a snow ball fight, or building a snow fort.  I will be the one inside at the window, taking some beautiful pictures and making your hot chocolate to enjoy when your play day is done, I may have already eaten all the marshmello fluff that you like it topped with though....sorry :(
 
Happy Wintering!!
 
 
 


Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Home Maker Monday

I was actually home on Monday but not to be a homemaker...Doug and I met with his surgeon about his fractured wrist.  Praise God, they decided surgery was not necessary.  Just wearing a brace and letting God heal it on it's own.
 
The weather outside is.....Snowing and cold.....booooooo!
 
On the breakfast plate this morning...3 cups of coffee.  I don't know why, but I forgot all about eating.
 
As I look outside my window...Those Titan T's are still there. Whoops.
 
Right now I am....Sitting down before we have to leave for Madison's basketball game
 
As I look around the house...I see that I need to vacuum and fold laundry as usual.
 
On today's to do list...we had Doug's appointment, ran some errands in the big city (yummy lunch at Panera), and Madison's game tonight.
 
Currently reading...nothing at the moment.  That is just unheard of :)
 
On the TV today...We watched Bold and the Beautiful of course and CSI.
 
On the menu this week...probably a lot of hot dogs and nachos.  We have 4 basketball games this week.
 
What I am creating at the moment..nothing.  That needs to change. 
 
New recipe I tried or want to try this week...No time this week.
 
Favorite photo  from the camera/phone...


 
This is how Lucy and her cousins entertained themselves at the Antique Show...by spelling out my name in book blocks.  How appropriate is that for this avid reader?

 
I loved this sign outside and the stuff inside was AMAZING!!
 
 
Prayers, Inspirational Quotes, or Devotionals....We had the answered prayer of no surgery for Doug.  We also need prayer for some different mamas in our friend life who are having medical crisis' with their children.  Their children are also being held up in prayer but these mamas are struggling with their faith and just emotionally spent. 

Link up with Diary of a Stay at Home Mom to share your Happy Homemaker Monday :)

Monday, November 10, 2014

Happy Homemaker Saturday 11/8

 
Ok, so this link up is actually Happy Home Maker Monday, but in this season of life I am not able  to be a stay at homer on Mondays, so I am making my post about Saturday.  I am still a stay at home homemaker at heart and this is what my Saturday (if I don't have to run, run, run around) entails...
 
 
The weather outside is..... cloudy and chilly in the 40's.
 
On the breakfast plate this morning...a Schwan's Ham and Cheese omelette.  Yes, it is frozen food, but these are so yummy and on the lite menu.
 
As I look outside my window...I see a bunch of Titan T's that need to come down from decorating for the playoff game. lol
 
Right now I am....preparing for my day and reading on my kindle.
 
As I look around the house...I see a lot of undone stuff.
 
On today's to do list...Madi needs to be taken to basketball practice, Cassie to cheer practice, Lucy and I are going to an antique show with my mother in law, fish fry for the Masonic lodge, and taking  supper to the farmers....whewww
 
Currently reading...You Are Already Amazing by Holley Gerth
 
On the TV today...who has time for that...see To Do :)
 
On the menu this week...Hamburger Hash (new recipe), Egg Casserole, Chili dip, Broccoli and Cheese Soup, and Pigs in a Blanket and Mac and Cheese (Lucy's cooking night). We have 2 ball games this week, so cooking will be quick and easy.
 
What I am creating at the moment..nothing right now, but itching to do something this next week.
 
New recipe I tried or want to try this week...the Hamburger Hash. It looks quick and delish.
 
Favorite photo  from the camera...

 
These two can have a ball with anything.  Including empty water boxes set out for the trash.
 
 
Prayers, Inspirational Quotes, or Devotionals....
 

 
Link up with diary of a stay at home mom to tell about your day!!

 




Friday, November 7, 2014

Friday Favorites

 
 
This week flew by for me...Halloween, teaching Sunday School, one kiddo spraining her ankle, and the day to day and work made this week feel fast and chaotic.
 
Here are some of my favorites for the week:
 
Katie and her man dressed up as Superman and Lois Lane...so cute :)
 
 
Lucy was Frankie Stein from Monster High, this is about as scary as we get with costumes
 
 
One of the best children's books.  Especially if you love to color like me :) 
 

 
One of my favorite bible verses.  I found this via pintrest....I even use it as my phone lock screen now.  Thank you God for fighting for me :)

 
Schwan's Baguette bread.  We devour it with butter as soon as it comes out of the oven.  It is pretty much an appetizer rather than an accompaniment for us since we can't wait...


 
Have a wonderful weekend!!


Thursday, November 6, 2014

Yummy Yummy

 
I had as a fall goal to try a new pumpkin recipe.  This is a variation of one I tried last year that my family requested again this fall. 
 

 
Pumpkin Fluff
 
1 can pumpkin
 
All Spice (sorry, I just shake some in until it smells like I want it to)
 
Butterscotch Instant Pudding Mix (last year I used vanilla)
 
1 container Cool Whip
 
Vanilla Wafers for dipping
 
Mix the first 3 ingredients together until well mixed and then fold in the cool whip until blended. 
 
Serve with vanilla wafers......so easy and so good!!
 
Enjoy :)
 
 
 
 
 
 


Monday, November 3, 2014

What I learned in October

 
Wow, could that month have gone any faster?  No, don't answer that. 
 
We were busy with Homecoming (Cassie was a freshman homecoming attendant), fall parties, church activities, basketball games, Cassie had an ER visit, harvest, and Halloween.  Oh, and yes I worked and did what I could on the day to day stuff (not well on the second part of that...). 
 
Wheww, I wish I could say November would be slower, but that would be ridiculous to say with my family.
 
In October I learned....
  
The library is one of Lucy's favorite outings with me.
 
That pull apart and bake cookies make my family just as happy as the ones from scratch.
 
That pumpkin noodles are amazing.
 
Purex laundry detergent is cheap and good!
 
Burning candles put me in the mood to clean the house and make things more homey for my family.
 
Meeting Katie for lunch and talking to her during the day is one of the amazing pluses of her being college aged. 
 
Homemade hamburgers are our new go to meal for fast and delicious. 
 
And.... Halloween is my favorite holiday, STILL :)
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Friday, October 31, 2014

Friday Favorites

 
My Friday Favorites....
 
 
My new camera!  I am so loving it.  Photography is something I have always wanted to explore and I now have a camera that is not annoying and not my phone :)  I am having so much fun with it. I can't wait to have some extra time to go on the hunt for some beautiful country churches and barns.  Oh,  and of course I also wanted a pretty and unique camera strap, as well as a "retro" camera case to accompany it.  I like to name the inanimate objects in my life so the camera will fondly be known as "Stella".
 


The perfect pairing for fall.  Creamer is probably my favorite pumpkin flavored anything... and as we all know, everything comes in pumpkin flavor in the fall now a days.
 

 
Farming.  Well, watching The Man farm I should say.  I am so proud of his profession :)

 
 
Our little hometown grocery and their fruit dip is to die for.....yummo!

 
Have a wonderful weekend!!

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Work, Work, Work

So this is what I do for the majority of the day...
 
Work at my desk.  A necessary evil to almost every job.


 
Drive around in this cool ride.  I know, you're jealous.


 
Read books to children...and get paid for it.

 
Some of my props for Stellaluna (one of the best children's books ever)....that is a bat puppet, not a beaver as my oldest thought.



I also do a lot of boring day to day tasks, but hanging out with the preschoolers is pretty awesome :)

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

It's Whats For Dinner

 
Everyone needs a quick and easy go to for busy nights.  I am sure I did not make this up completely on my own, but it was the result of what was in the pantry one night, and I must say it is YUMMY :)
 
 
Hamburger Casserole
 
2 pounds browned ground beef, I brown mine with 1/2 a chopped onion
 
1 package cooked egg noodles, I use No Yolks noodles
 
1 can cream of mushroom soup
 
1/2 a soup can of milk
 
1 cup shredded mild cheddar cheese
 
 
I mix the ingredients together except for the cheese and put in a casserole dish.  Top with the shredded cheddar. Then pop it in a 350 degree oven for 30 minutes. 
 
 
See, Yummy and Easy !!! I hope you enjoy :)
 
 
 
 


Friday, October 17, 2014

A Little Inspiration in the Day to Day

 
 
 
 
Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves.
 ~ Sir James M. Barrie, British writer